HOW POPULAR WE ARE !!

Some of us suffer from inflated sense of self importance and try to know how popular and acceptable we are. While we are in control of how we react or what we say from our side, we cannot control preference of the person at the receiving end. One expert felt it was safe to presume 70% people don't like us. That still leaves a good number of people who like us.Some feel icky about seeming disapproval of them while there is no reason why they should be. Some suffer from narcissistic personality disorder , their rejection sensitivity seems strong. These traits in leaders could make governance partisan, punitive and coercive. *******